I am sorry, but I'm still having a hard time believing it's actually 2009 already. I mean, wasn't it just 1999 and we were all commenting to ourselves Gosh, next year will be 2000 and that's like soooooo in the future!? No, that was just me? Huh.
But really, this past year seemed to just fly right by. It was a good one, but it seriously seems like I just said goodbye to '07. And then I blinked. And here I am an entire year later.
I don't normally make formal resolutions for the new year ahead of me. I just make a promise to myself that this new year will be better than the last. Which, I guess, is kind of the point of a resolution--to be better--but I feel that there is a difference between a formal list of resolutions and just a promise to have a better year. Tomato, tomahto.
Anyway, this year, I do have a few goals that I've set for myself. Or, if not goals, at least hopes to change something after making a realization about myself. By the end of this year, I have a pretty good idea of where I'd like to be in life, so the majority of my goals are, really, smaller goals that will help me get there. Stepping-stones if you will. I think that reminding myself what I want this year will help me keep on track. I think, for the most part, they're fairly generic and I would imagine most people have resolutions that are the same or similar on their lists. Yet, this being the first year I've really ever done this, I'm still excited about mine.
I went back and forth with myself about sharing them on my blog (what if I don't meet them?) and finally reached a compromise. There are some worth sharing and some that are more personal and that I'll keep with me. So, here goes.
In addition to hoping to read more books and meet more new people, in 2009, I hope to:
- Be more organized. Around the house, with our finances, with everything. I don't know how it happened, but somewhere along the way, I started slacking on my filing of bills and keeping of the books and regular purging of junk mail that I used to do. Stuff started to pile up and when I did get around to tackling the piles, it was too much work and it took hours (or weeks come March when I started doing our taxes). Which resulted in putting it off longer and longer. No more. I promise I am going to keep on top of it. Instead of just thinking about doing it, I'm going to do it.
- Increase our savings and retirement contributions. While we've been saving money and contributing to our retirement, we've also kind of been coasting along and not doing all we could be. This year, we're really going to beef that up. With the economy being down, it's a great time to buy "on sale" investments. Having a job with a 401(k) and employer match doesn't hurt either.
- Get in better shape. Who doesn't have this on their list? I have a very distinct goal in mind relating to this one, but I'm still afraid to share it with the masses. I fear it may be too ambitious and I don't want to be held to it in the event it doesn't happen. I've shared it with a few people and I know that I have their absolute, 110% support in my attempt. So, I'll leave it at that.
- Be present. I really feel that 2008 came and went and that I have little to show for it. That is a hard thing to admit, but it is what it is. I don't know what I was so caught up in, but there is honestly little that sticks out in my mind as being great. Sure, we adopted a dog, we traveled, we had fun with our friends and family and it's not that it was a bad year. It just wasn't great. There were many times that I distinctly remember thinking to myself "wow, did another month just go by? How did that happen?". This is a huge problem to me. I feel that the years will only go faster and if I don't stop to take a moment to enjoy them every once in a while, they'll be gone before I know it. Having future goals is great, but I often found myself getting so caught up in living for the future that I was forgetting to live my life in the here and now.
- Be a better wife, friend, daughter and sister. Absolutely and decidedly the hardest realization I came to this year. Going along with the above, I realized I was not as great of a wife/friend/daughter/sister that I could have been. I know I am better than the past year. I promise to really be there. To be better to you. To give you all that you deserve, as you've given me that and more this past year.
After having made these realizations about myself and crafting this list, I almost instantly feel better. I have no doubt that 2009 will bring great things and will be a truly fantastic year.
And, what about you? Do you usually make resolutions? Do you have any good ones to share this year? Are you excited about what 2009 will bring as I am?